ASK HAZ: I’M ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE WHO IS IN A RELATIONSHIP BY @Haztv

 

Hey Haz,

 

Ever been in love with a lesbian that ain’t know she was a lesbian?! That was me a year ago in Afghanistan she’s sexy but loves masculine things smh here’s the question that was a tangent, why are people attracted to people in relationships?! Seriously I’m feeling a broad that has a worthless nigga. I’m like two steps from fucking her brains out and giving her a taste of good dick and the good life. What’s a nigga to do?!

Thank God & Stay Humble

 

Aight nigga damn lol…. First things first, no I have never been in love with a lesbian that ain’t know she liked catfish.  Leave her alone she sounds like trouble. Now to answer your second and real question…. Why do people find themselves attracted to people in relationships? Its a few different reasons and ways I can answer this the first is the most obvious. People in relationships “tend” to “have their shit together” for the most part because if they weren’t on point to some degree nobody would want them. If she has a man willing to claim her as his own then chances are she is doing something right or has some qualities about her that warrant that type of treatment. Also we as humans naturally want the shit we can’t have so just knowing that a woman “belongs” to someone else will add to that level of intrigue and excitement about her. It becomes more of a challenge and as men we love the challenge . The real question is how do you know her nigga is worthless? Has she been telling you all of his flaws and painting the picture that he ain’t shit? If so then don’t be so quick to fall for that trap. A woman in a un- fulfilling relationship isn’t always looking to cheat. She is just looking for that fulfillment that she lacks. If he is knocking the lining out of her crabby patty and just not there for her emotionally and supporting her the way she feels she deserves then no matter what you say or do ur chances of hitting are slim. Women have a tendency to seek the masculine attention they desire from an outside source to fulfill their needs, but won’t fuck that man because to them that would be considered cheating. To me if she telling you all his dirt but still going home to him you gotta brace yaself for the possibility that you’re in the friend zone. You might be the nigga she can vent to, get a lil positive reassurance that she is attractive, still got it and can still get it and be the boost she needs to go back and deal with her ain’t shit nigga. Just remember for all the bad she tells you there is obviously something good she ain’t telling you that’s making her stay. My advice would be don’t invest too much time in her until you start to see a return on your initial investment. Let her know that she has an option in you but that you also have options and ain’t waiting around for her to leave him. Don’t throw salt on buddy no matter what you do, if she brings him up negatively try to shift the convo from him to yall… Instead of focusing on the bad he does try to get her to focus on the good you can do. Make it clear what you can bring to the table that she isn’t already getting and leave it up to her to make the right decision. Also you said you close to giving her the dick and giving her a taste of the “good life” nigga you better not be wearing no cape tryin to save a damsel in distress lol… Lemme know if you got any other questions and keep me updated on ya progress!

 

@Haztv

 

@Haztv is the Co-host of Chunky Chickz Radio and an up and coming writer and social commentator with frequent blog contributions to #SoPhi & he will now be giving sound advice to the readers ofChunky Chickz World.
Hit him up at helpmehaz@gmail.com if you have a problem that you need help solving!  
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Aww this is just so sweet… Jay-Z dedicates his new track Glory to his new baby girl and even features her on the track. LUV!!!