Ask Haz: Are we JUST FRIENDS or is he JUST Playing GAMES?! | by @Haztv

 

Hey Haz,

I have a guy that wants to play the friend game but not by the rules, meaning he can go fishing but I can’t. How do I let a man know that once he says “we’re just friends” not to expect me to act like his girlfriend?

 

Ok since this is a follow up to a question that I’ve already answered I’m gonna save all the fake deep stuff and get straight to the point. When it comes to dealing with the opposite sex it’s always best to know what you want going in the door. Now it sounds to me like you would’ve been good with being his girlfriend had he said that but instead YOU let HIM set the tone of the relationship virtually allowing him to pick the rules. The reason he doesn’t want you “fishing” the way he does is because of what I told you before, men don’t like to share their pussy. You agreed to be just the “friend” but you didn’t come up with the idea. You probably were being faithful in the beginning and your relationship hit it’s “glass ceiling” so to speak and he came up with the friend line. Hopefully not after you applied pressure on him asking what your status was. Realize that if you only want to fish because he is and wouldn’t if he didn’t then ya ass is outta pocket. It’s all tit for tat till a bitch get slapped. If you want a relationship find you a nigga that wants a relationship. Stop settling for a piece of a man. Now if you really just want to be friends then like I said in the previous response tell that nigga to take the cuffs off. It doesn’t matter what he expects, he is a friend he has no say. If he can’t accept what a friend truly is then you have no option other than to charge him to the game or. Now stop asking me about this shit lol.

 

– @Haztv

@Haztv is the Co-host of Chunky Chickz Radio and an up and coming writer and social commentatorwith frequent blog contributions to #SoPhi & he will now be giving sound advice to the readers ofChunky Chickz World.
Hit him up at helpmehaz@gmail.com if you have a problem that you need help solving!  
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