Why do men play the friend game with us, they do what or who they want but expect us to act like their girlfriend?
Because you let us. I been drinkin that brown bitch so I’ma be blunt. A man’s gone be a man. That mean’s he’s gonna want to run the streets the way men do and come home to HIS woman. A man will understand that he has to share these hoes but will never want to share HIS woman. That means he’s gonna want you to himself but still be susceptible to sampling some shone on the side. That’s what men do. It’s up to you as a woman to focus his attention and energy to help him elevate to his full potential. Now in your case you may have a problem boo. If the right woman comes around a nigga with any worth will claim her even if he has to get his life right just to do so. Now if yall just wanna fuck and not claim each other then that should be clear. If he don’t know what a “friend” is then you need to educate him on the rules of the game and proceed to do ya thang. However if you want more than just a friend and are trying to do right but just ain’t getting the title then chances are ya pussy might be the problem. It’s probably good but it ain’t great.You the shit but you ain’t it. Ya coochie might just be convenient. If that’s the case then you need to hit me up at WhoHazAHeart@gmail.com for some 1 on 1 Confidence Coaching to help you elevate ya game to where it need to be. In the end if you make it too easy for a man he will almost always take you for granted and no woman likes driving home late at night with a soggy sac.@Haztv is the Co-host of Chunky Chickz Radio and an up and coming writer and social commentator with frequent blog contributions to #SoPhi & he will now be giving sound advice to the readers ofChunky Chickz World. Hit him up at email@example.com if you have a problem that you need help solving!
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